Thankful Thursday – Festive Lights and Cocktail Dresses
Once again, it’s time for Thankful Thursday! I hope this post inspires you to consider the things in your life that you are grateful for. If you have a blog, consider posting about it there and link back here. If you don’t have a blog, please feel welcome to comment here on what you are grateful for in your own life. If you don’t feel comfortable sharing, then just take a few moments to reflect on all that you have. If you’d like to tag other bloggers that participate, feel free to do that.
Ahhh, here we are, approaching the holidays at breakneck speed. Everywhere I turn there are holiday tunes in the background, blinking lights on the trees, something to remind me how thankful I am for this season. It brings out the child in me and takes me back to a time when purple ponies with sparkles on their butts arrived under the Christmas tree. For the first 12 years of my life, my Christmas list started off the same: Can I get a horse? A palomino? And can it live in the backyard? Never did get a palomino, but I was fortunate to have horses in my backyard for many years. And each Christmas reminds me of those days when purple ponies had to suffice and how, with a little creativity, they were able to fill my aching need for a horse.
Another of my favorite reasons for the season is the proliferation of holiday parties and festive gatherings. As those who know me can attest, I have a long standing love for cocktail dresses that falls behind only horses, dogs, and chocolate on my list of addictions (no, chocolate and formal wear are not mutually exclusive in my world, at least at the moment). Holidays also remind me of my childhood when my cousin Jenn would come to visit from out of town for the week and our parents would hit the malls for returns or after Christmas sales. Invariably, Jenn and I would spend our time in the formal wear section trying on a multitude of dresses and dreaming of the events that we might one day wear them to. That hobby blossomed into a full blown addiction that resulted in a closet full of formal dresses ‘just in case’ I ever needed them. A couple of years ago I accepted that neither my hips nor my wallet (nor my closet, actually) could sustain that addiction any longer and I donated the dresses to charity. Imagine my excitement when I was invited to an office holiday party this year by a new friend. Even better, I had to go shopping for a new dress. I’m afraid the addiction may have been rekindled…
Happy Thursday to all and please visit these other sites that frequently participate in Thankful Thursday:
Akal Ranch, Enlightened Horsemanship Through Touch, and Tired Dog Ranch.





Jenn AKA The Leftover Queen - December 10, 2009 at 2:27 pm
Oh my gosh, I remember those days! So much fun!
I had no idea that those days frolicking in the formal wear department turned into an addiction!
LOL!
michelle - December 10, 2009 at 4:14 pm
Yes, Jenn, I’ve kept it pretty well hidden and have had it under control in recent years….it’s a tenuous control though!
Arlene - December 10, 2009 at 7:26 pm
Well, here’s to purple ponies and all good things. Know what I think, keep getting those pretty dresses, and then go out and find somewhere to wear them!!
michelle - December 10, 2009 at 7:39 pm
I like the way you think, Arlene! Thanks for the tip. =)
Hazem - December 10, 2009 at 9:21 pm
Nice dress
michelle - December 11, 2009 at 12:24 am
Thanks, Hazem. =) And thanks for giving me a reason to buy it!
Simrat - December 11, 2009 at 12:56 pm
Wonderful! I love that you love cocktail dresses, along with the chocolate and ponies.
I’ve rekindled my adiction to silk scarves…. I used to love going through my great aunt’s armoire when I was small. It was filled with fabulous elbow high kid gloves, hats with feathers on them, and yes, silk scarves galore! I would dress up in her flapper era accessories, complete with a long black cigarette holder discretely studded with rhinestones.
Those memories are precious.
Thanks for rekindling them and reminding me why I returned to silk scarves…
juliette - December 12, 2009 at 8:58 am
I share your love of cocktail dresses – although I have zero opportunity to wear them. I think I really love the idea of the cocktail party – you know, the New York stereotypical kind in a flat high over Manhattan with Audrey Hepburn type dresses and drinks and little skinny people. Only a dream though, in my mud and ice horsey world! Dreaming is in the air this time of year! Have fun at the office party.
michelle - December 14, 2009 at 8:54 am
Glad you rediscovered your love for silk scarves, Simrat! There is nothing quite like going through old armoires – the accessories from those days are so much fun! I used to do the same thing with my grandma, she had some of the most amazing hats and jewelry. =)
Juliette, I think that’s precisely WHY I like to play dress up – it reminds me that there is truly a girl underneath the dust and dirt! One night is good though, then it’s nice to return to my jeans and boots for awhile.
greyhorsematters - December 14, 2009 at 10:33 am
I’m sure you’ll look fetching in your new holiday dress, it’s so much fun to get dressed up once in a while. Those purple ponies sound adorable, my granddaughter loves her ‘my pretty ponies’ and has a collection of them she travels everywhere with. This year she’s getting some Breyers too. Have a great time at the party.
michelle - December 15, 2009 at 12:16 pm
Thanks, GHM! I always loved my pretty ponies – I had quite a stable full when I was young!
Lisa - December 16, 2009 at 10:04 am
Oh the dresses! There seems to be a lot of this addiction going around.
I hate to admit how many I have hanging in my closet…
michelle - December 17, 2009 at 8:20 am
Yes, Lisa! My inner amateur psychologist tells me it has something to do with the large proportion of time us horse girls spend in dirt, dust, and mud. The cocktail dresses balance it out, I’m convinced!