Thankful Thursday – A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime
Once again, it’s time for Thankful Thursday! I hope this post inspires you to consider the things in your life that you are grateful for. If you have a blog, consider posting about it there and link back here. If you don’t have a blog, please feel welcome to comment here on what you are grateful for in your own life. If you don’t feel comfortable sharing, then just take a few moments to reflect on all that you have. If you’d like to tag other bloggers that participate, feel free to do that.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person. – Author unknown
This statement holds a lot of truth and the events of the past two weeks have certainly dumped me smack in the middle of deciding exactly which I’m presently dealing with: a reason? A season? Or just maybe a lifetime?
I returned from my trip to Columbus refreshed and inspired, full of possibilities and hope. The BlogPaws event I’d just attended had placed a huge focus on the plight of rescued and abandoned animals, and the week of the 12th was buzzing with news of the “Be The Change” challenge – a call to raise funds for Pets Without Parents, a non profit chosen at random during the conference. I really do believe that things happen for a reason and that sometimes things are put into our paths at certain times for certain reasons, and this has never been more true for me than that April afternoon. I’d returned home from Columbus late Sunday night and had left Slobber Dog with my friend Luke for one more night. I left work on Monday, headed to Luke’s house to pick him up and along the way I noticed this dog sniffing around on the side of the road in a residential area. In many circumstances I might have shaken my head at the irresponsibility of some pet owners, letting their dogs wander loose near a busy roadway. But on this day, I was compelled to stop. Was it the solidarity of the pet bloggers devoted to helping unwanted animals that I’d just experienced? Was it the bones protruding from this dog’s spine and hips and the way she cowered at the traffic passing by? It was probably some combination of the two that forced me to pull over on the side of the road and approach her. It took a few minutes for me to gain her trust enough to get close but when I did, “Hazel” placed her head on my shoulder and stole my heart. I promptly put her in my car and drove off with her, having no idea of how my decision would play out in the coming days. To be honest, I still don’t.
Hazel has passed her vet exam – she just needs about 10 lbs (about 25% of her current body weight) to be in normal condition; no heartworm or any other diseases. She has accepted the other animals and they have accepted her. She has proven to be a resilient and loving dog, and looks like she will make a full recovery from the likely abuse and neglect she suffered. I have absolutely no doubt that this dog was in my path for a reason on that afternoon. She has ignited a spark that I’ve been missing for a long time and I remember how helping rescue dogs has had such a profound impact on my life. So why do I question her role in my life?
My current living situation dictates that I cannot keep her with me. I am unable to have any more animals in my apartment, and her needs at this time are far greater than what I can provide for her. My situation will be changing in August, but what to do until then? I have been searching for options over the past few weeks and I want to do what’s best for Hazel. She deserves a loving, stable home. I have come up with a few options and I will remain hopeful that if this dog is meant to share my life, it will all work out. Regardless of whether Hazel is here for a reason, a season, or a lifetime, she has shone a bright ray of sunlight into my life and I am so thankful that we crossed paths.

Each of these beautiful dogs is awaiting their forever home at Pet Rescue by Judy, photos courtesy of www.petrescuebyjudy.com
Please check out the Be The Change challenge and pass along the word to your friends. It’s not too late to donate to the cause or to focus your own efforts in some way to help a rescue of your own choice. April is Prevention of Animal Cruelty Month and Hazel has been a reminder to me that there are many animals out there that need help.
I hope you all have a wonderful, happy Earth Day Thursday and please visit these other sites that frequently participate in Thankful Thursday:
Akal Ranch, Enlightened Horsemanship Through Touch, The Pony Expression, and Tired Dog Ranch.





juliette - April 29, 2010 at 7:28 am
Heart-wrenching story. You are Hazel’s Guardian Angel. I am hoping and praying for her and you that it all works out. There are too many neglected and abandoned dogs. What is it about Florida and abandoned dogs? Obviously, it happens everywhere, but the warm temps must allow the sweet forgotten angels to live longer so they band together. It is awful. My lab, Jet, and I were driving through Northern Florida and at one stop we were in danger of being attacked by a pack. You could tell that the pack was made up of dropped off “pets” and also some new mixes. They had to survive and had learned to do whatever it takes. Good thoughts your way.
michelle - April 29, 2010 at 8:29 am
Thanks Julie! I’ll have to send you a photo of her. I don’t want to post any on here just yet, for a number of reasons. But she just has the sweetest, most wonderful face and this personality that is so filled with love. It enrages me when I think about what has been done to her. Thanks for the good thoughts! I’m making her spay appointment today. =)
morningbrayfarm - April 29, 2010 at 9:10 am
I’m so glad you stopped Michelle. The quote at the beginning of your post is perfect. Everything happens for a reason and I’m sure Hazel will end up in a good place where she belongs thanks to you.
michelle - April 29, 2010 at 11:28 am
Thanks so much, Morning Bray! It means a lot to hear that. I love this dog so much and I selfishly just want to do whatever I can do to keep her forever. I worry so much about her fragile emotional state, though. I’d hate for her to bond to someone, then have to take her away from them after a few months. Of course, she is so bonded to me already (and she hasn’t even been living with me) that either way I think she’ll have a big adjustment. Fingers crossed!
Colleen - April 29, 2010 at 2:04 pm
I am so glad you stopped! I am so happy that your path entwined with that dog’s! Now she has a chance! isn’t it amazing how warm she was to you and thr other animals? It’s like she’s not jaded by her own experience. Our current dog is a rescue dog–someone dumped her and her 2 siblings in the woods. The Rescue Organization told us that the dogs–just puppies– were running around and one person saw one of the dogs get killed by a car. So her gathered the other two up and took care of them until they were adopted. I am so grateful to that man and I have no idea who he is.
I hope you get to keep your dog. Because she is really yours now, isn’t she? Good Luck.
Jenn AKA The Leftover Queen - April 29, 2010 at 3:33 pm
Wow, Michelle, reading about this just breaks my heart, for Hazel, for you, and for all those abandoned dogs. You know I have a big place in my heart for rescues, and I am looking forward to signing up to be a volunteer at my local animal rescue in the next few weeks. After all, they did unite me with my second best canine friend
I am proud of what you did. It takes guts, and a huge heart. Love you so much, cuz, I hope that everything works out for you to be able to keep Hazel. She definitely is your dog.
Paint Girl - April 30, 2010 at 12:45 am
You were in the right place at the right time to see Hazel roaming the streets. I totally believe that it was meant to be that this dog came into your life. You are amazing for stopping and taking her in. I will never be able to figure out how people can be so selfish and inconsiderate to abuse and neglect any animal. I get so disgusted when I hear about any kinds of abuse, whether human or animal.
I so hope that it works out that you can keep Hazel, I can tell you are totally attached and devoted to her! Good luck Michelle!
michelle - April 30, 2010 at 7:50 am
Thanks Colleen, Jenn, and Paint Girl! You all are so right, abused and neglected dogs are heartbreaking. All of my dogs have always been rescues, but I have never been involved with the actual rescue of a dog that has been this severely abused and neglected. I can’t wait to share her progress and story with everyone. Thanks to everyone for the support. =)
ann chin, New Zealand - May 2, 2010 at 5:20 am
POOR DOGS!!!!! I once volunteered at a dog and cat shelter, and I just got so angry with people who abuse the,
Arlene - May 2, 2010 at 2:28 pm
I still have a lump in my throat, Michelle. Hazel is an amazing creature, gentle and wanting to be loved. And, I, too, am so glad that you took her in. She is a special little gal and I hope it will all work out for her to stay with you. I am so, so proud of you.
michelle - May 2, 2010 at 11:05 pm
Thanks Arlene, she is a doll isn’t she? I just love her to death!
michelle - May 3, 2010 at 8:17 am
Working at a shelter can be so difficult, Ann. I’m so frustrated that people just don’t get how great rescue animals are (and that so many people refuse to get their animals altered, grrrr!)
Hazem - May 5, 2010 at 6:26 am
Michelle,
you’re a wonderful person. your story touched my heart.
I hope all works out for you & hazel.
michelle - May 5, 2010 at 8:13 am
Thanks Hazem, that means a lot to me! I can’t wait for you to meet her!